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Perfectionism: How to Beat It

Perfectionism is a common trait that many of us possess. We all want to do things well and to a high standard, but when does that desire turn into a problem?

Firstly, it's important to recognise that there are two types of perfectionism - healthy and unhealthy. Healthy perfectionism involves setting high standards for oneself but also recognising that mistakes and imperfections are a natural part of the learning process. Unhealthy perfectionism, on the other hand, involves setting impossible standards for oneself and being overly critical of mistakes and imperfections.

Unhealthy perfectionism can lead to a number of negative consequences, including anxiety, depression, and burnout. It can also make it difficult to form relationships, as perfectionists may be overly critical of themselves and others.

So, what can we do to combat unhealthy perfectionism?

The first step is to recognise it in ourselves. Are we setting standards that are unattainable? Are we overly critical of our mistakes and imperfections? If so, we may need to re-evaluate our standards and learn to accept that making mistakes is a natural part of the learning process.

Another helpful strategy is to practice self-compassion. Rather than being overly critical of ourselves, we should learn to treat ourselves with kindness and understanding. This can help to reduce anxiety and stress and make it easier to cope with challenges and setbacks.

Finally, it's important to remember that perfectionism is not the same thing as excellence. While excellence involves striving for high standards, it also involves recognising that mistakes and imperfections are a natural part of the learning process. By embracing this mindset, we can cultivate a healthier, more balanced approach to life and work.

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